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Being gay is already an adventure on its own — your sex life should be too. Sure, scissoring memes are funny, but let’s be real: lesbian sex is so much more than what straight people think it is. And yet, somehow, we all end up in the same three positions on rotation.
Time to change that.
Welcome to your new favorite cheat sheet: 20+ lesbian sex positions that’ll keep things fresh, fiery, and (let’s be honest) a little ridiculous at times—in the best way. Whether you’re into slow and sensual, athletic and ambitious, or something that lets you stay lazy but still get the job done, we’ve got you covered.
So, grab your girl, pick a position, and get ready to upgrade your sex life. Because if anyone deserves mind-blowing, toe-curling pleasure, it’s you.
1. Seated Wheelbarrow
Like the regular wheelbarrow, but make it cozy. You sit on the edge of a chair, and she straddles your lap, wrapping her legs around your waist. Perfect for deep grinding, intense eye contact, and pretending you have core strength.
2. Night-Fly
One of you lies back while the other kneels between her legs, lifting them onto her shoulders. It’s intimate, intense, and gives her full control over the rhythm—so just lie back and enjoy.
3. Niagara Falls
You lie on your back with your head hanging off the edge of the bed, while she stands over you for oral. This one’s perfect for dramatic lighting and feeling like a very dedicated girlfriend.
4. Kamasutra
If you and your girl are tired of the same three go-to moves, it’s time to expand your repertoire. The Kamasutra app has plenty of positions to explore—whether you’re looking for something slow and sensual or a move that deserves its own Olympic category. Because why settle for good when you could have mind-blowing?
Get the app5. Passive Doggy
Doggy style, but chill. You lie flat on your stomach while she gets to work from behind. Less effort for you, all the fun for her. It’s basically the lazy girl’s dream position.
6. Bermuda Triangle
This one’s all about angles. One of you sits back on your elbows, the other straddles her at a 90-degree angle. It’s part scissor, part grind, and fully worth the hip flexor stretch.
7. The Socket
One of you lies back while the other straddles facing her feet, so she’s in full control of the movement. A+ for grinding, bonus points for watching the show from below.
8. Golden Gate
A twist on oral with a little extra adventure. She kneels over your face facing your feet, meaning you both get an incredible view. It’s ambitious, sure—but worth it.
9. Face-Off
Sit facing each other, legs wrapped around, bodies pressed together. It’s hot, it’s close, and it’s the perfect mix of romantic and filthy.
10. Pretzel Dip
One of you lies on her side, the other kneels between her legs, hooking one of them over her hip. It’s half spooning, half scissoring, and 100% a must-try.
11. Ballet Dancer
One of you stands while the other raises a leg behind her, wrapping around for support. It’s equal parts sexy and ambitious—so maybe warm up first.
12. The Scissors
The OG lesbian position. You and your girl face each other, legs entwined for that perfect friction. A little overrated? Maybe. A classic for a reason? Absolutely.
13. Iron Chef
Kitchen counters aren’t just for chopping vegetables. One of you sits on the counter, wrapping her legs around the other for a little late-night… snack.
14. The Seashell
She lies on her back with her legs pressed toward her chest while you kneel between them. Deep, intimate, and a little acrobatic—worth every second.
15. The Pinball Wizard
One of you lies back in a very dramatic bridge position while the other takes charge. It’s giving Cirque du Soleil, but we believe in you.
16. Spork
A softer, more intimate take on the scissor. Less acrobatics, more sensual grinding. Perfect for when you want closeness and action.
17. Table Top
She lies on a table, and you stand between her legs. Simple, effective, and lets you take the lead. Bonus points if you dramatically swipe everything off the table first.
18. Pleasure Pick-Me-Up
One of you sits on the edge of a chair, the other straddles her lap. It’s basically a lap dance with benefits.
19. Happy Baby Pose
She lies on her back, legs up like a very flexible baby, while you take control. It’s silly, it’s intimate, and it works.
20. The Grasshopper
Like missionary, but one of you hooks a leg over the other’s shoulder for extra depth. Feels amazing, looks even better.
21. Seated Scissors
You both sit facing each other, legs interlocked, for maximum grinding action. Prepare for eye contact overload.
22. Reverse Cowgirl
One of you straddles the other but faces away. A whole new view, a whole new level of control.
23. Reverse Cowboy
Like Reverse Cowgirl, but with a little twist. Instead of sitting upright, she leans back against your chest for a totally different angle.
24. Spooning
Soft, sweet, and perfect for lazy mornings. One of you cuddles up behind the other for effortless, slow grinding.
25. Reverse Spooning
Like spooning, but facing away from each other, with a leg hooked over hers for more friction. Great for sleepy but determined sessions.
26. Corkscrew
She lies on her side while you kneel behind for penetration (or grinding). A solid mix of effort and comfort.
27. The Wheelbarrow
One of you gets on all fours while the other lifts her legs for a thrilling challenge. Requires upper body strength, but worth the bragging rights.
28. The Leapfrog
Like doggy, but with a little more bounce. One of you kneels, leaning forward on your hands, while the other kneels behind for some serious thrusting power.
29. Magic Mountain
You both sit with legs interlocked, leaning back slightly for balance. It’s like scissoring, but elevated.
30. The Caboose
She sits on the edge of a bed or chair, and you kneel between her legs. Great for fingering, oral, or whatever you feel like.
31. The Chairman
One of you sits in a sturdy chair, the other straddles her lap. Easy to execute, impossible to not love.
