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Ready to spice up your love life? Look, we get it. As a gay couple, there’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to sex positions. You’re unique, your chemistry is electric, and let’s be honest — you’ve earned a few new tricks.
It’s time to break out of that comfort zone and explore 40+ exciting, innovative, and sometimes jaw-dropping positions that’ll bring you closer, in every sense of the word. Whether you’re craving something intimate or a little more adventurous, we’ve got positions that’ll push all the right buttons.
Because hey, variety isn’t just for your wardrobe—it’s essential for keeping the passion alive in your relationship. So, whether you’re a seasoned pro or just looking for something new to try tonight, we’ve got the perfect moves for you. Buckle up, it’s about to get hot.
1. Missionary
The classic. The old faithful. It’s as simple as it gets—one partner lies back, legs spread, while the other gets on top and takes charge. Is it super exciting? Not really. But it’s comfy, intimate, and hey, sometimes that’s exactly what you need.
2. Cowboy
Time for your partner to take the reins. You lie back, and he straddles you, riding you like he’s got a mission to complete. It’s not just for cowboys, though—this one’s all about letting him lead and making you feel extra special.
3. Kamasutra
You and your man need new positions? Well, get ready to unlock a whole new world of possibilities. The Kamasutra app’s got your back, offering up every angle, twist, and turn to keep things fresh and exciting. It’s like a personal sex manual that’s always ready when you are—just waiting for you to try something a little… extra.
4. Spooning
Perfect for those days when you wanna snuggle up and get down at the same time. Both of you lie on your sides, he behind you, and bam—mutual pleasure with a side of cuddle. This one’s all about feeling connected and getting off. Double whammy.
5. Doggy Style
If you’re not using this one, what are you doing? One partner gets on all fours while the other takes full advantage from behind. It’s one of the most versatile positions—deep penetration, power play, and, if you’re into it, that angle.
6. The Lotus
Let’s get zen. You sit cross-legged while your partner straddles your lap, wrapping his arms and legs around you for some deep connection and eye contact. It’s slow, intimate, and all about the feels (and yeah, the other feels too).
7. Butter Churner
You’ve seen it, and now you’re ready to try it. One partner lies back, legs bent over their head, while the other squats above them for a deeper connection. It’s a bit of a stretch—literally—but it’s worth it for that perfect angle.
8. Bermuda Triangle
You’ve found the sweet spot. One partner sits on a couch, and the other stands above them, leaning forward for some seriously intimate oral action. It’s like a 69, but with a twist. You won’t want to leave this position anytime soon.
9. The Socket
It’s like you’re plugging in for a deep connection. One partner lies back, and the other sits on top of them, facing away. Perfect for grinding and showing off those moves. It’s all about control and the oh-so-good rhythm.
10. Golden Gate
Who says oral pleasure can’t be innovative? One partner lies back, and the other kneels above them, facing away. It’s a creative twist on a classic—plus, you get the added bonus of perfect access for some seriously hot oral action.
11. Face-off
A playful way to get up close and personal. One partner sits on the floor, while the other stands above him, leaning down for mutual oral pleasure. Think of it like the ultimate face-to-face (literally) bonding experience.
12. Thor’s Hammer
Not for the faint of heart (or the stiff of back). One partner lies back on the couch, knees toward their chest, while the other crouches over them for deep penetration. It requires flexibility (and maybe a few yoga classes), but the payoff is worth it.
13. The Butterfly
This one’s all about deep penetration and making a serious connection. One partner lies on their back with legs resting on the other’s shoulders while the other enters them. Get ready for an intimate, intense experience. You might want to stretch first.
14. The Pinball Wizard
A little tricky, a lot rewarding. One partner lies in a partial bridge, while the other kneels between their legs for some intense action. It’s challenging, but if you can pull it off, you’ll be hitting all the right spots.
15. The Wheelbarrow
Put your gym membership to good use. One partner gets on all fours, and the other lifts their legs like a wheelbarrow for some serious balance (and fun). It’s equal parts strength and coordination, with a side of sexy.
16. Piledriver
You better have some serious flexibility for this one. One partner lies on their back with legs over their head, while the other kneels for some deep penetration. It’s intense, it’s deep, and it’s not for beginners.
17. Niagara Falls
Stand tall for this one. One partner stands with legs wide apart, while the other bends backward for some upside-down oral fun. It’s adventurous, it’s playful, and it’s perfect for when you want to keep things fresh and exciting.
18. The Scissors
Cross your legs, and let’s get grinding. Both partners sit facing each other, legs crossed, for some seriously intimate, grinding action. It’s all about closeness and mutual stimulation. Think of it as a sexy little dance.
19. Iron Chef
Who says cooking can’t be sexy? One partner sits on a kitchen counter, while the other stands between their legs for some steamy action. It’s hot, literally and figuratively, and brings a whole new meaning to “spicing things up.”
20. The Seashell
You’re going to want to look good in this one. One partner lies on their back with legs crossed behind their head while the other gets to work from above. It’s an intimate, visually stunning position that’ll make you feel like a real sexy shell collector.
21. Froggy Style
This one’s all about new angles. One partner lies back with legs resting on furniture, while the other sits on top, facing them. It’s unique, it’s playful, and it’s bound to leave you both feeling more connected than ever.
22. 69
Classic. Timeless. Perfection. Both partners lie facing each other’s genitals for mutual oral pleasure. It’s as simple as it gets and always a crowd-pleaser. You can’t go wrong with this one.
23. Face-Sitting
Time to show him who’s in charge. One partner lies on their back while the other kneels over their face for some seriously dominating oral action. It’s perfect for power dynamics and delivering that extra wow factor.
24. Standing Oral
This one’s quick and dirty. One partner stands, while the other kneels to perform oral sex. It’s simple, effective, and guaranteed to have you both feeling extra pleased. It’s the “I’ve got five minutes, but let’s make it count” position.
25. Giraffe
Get creative with your oral skills. One partner lies back with their head hanging off the bed, while the other stands over them, bringing the heat in an unexpected way. It’s one of those “why haven’t I thought of this before?” positions.
26. Speed Bump
Lie on your stomach with your hips slightly raised—think of it as offering premium access. Your partner straddles you from behind, setting the rhythm while you just enjoy the ride. Slow and sensual or deep and relentless—it’s all in his hands.
27. Teabag
Classic. Effective. Hilarious if you think about it too much. Lie on your back with your head hanging over the edge of the bed while your partner stands above you, giving you a very up-close and personal experience. Gravity does half the work. You just focus on handling it.
28. The Hot Seat
Take a seat—on him. Straddle his lap, facing him, and wrap your arms around for some extra closeness. It’s intimate, it’s passionate, and if you throw in some grinding, it’s downright filthy. Bonus points for keeping eye contact the whole time.
